build your beautiful self

I had a conversation with my son yesterday. He is 20 years old… That ought to explain the conversation right there! LOL

He is at that typical phase when you are 20, wondering what you should do with life. Unsure where to go, which direction and path to take in life. Knows what he wants his life to look like but is unsure what road will lead him to his desired vision for his life.

I talked to him about moving forward and motivation to get what he wants. He needs to learn that the world isn’t going to hand him anything. Hard work and dedication to your pursuits are what will make you successful in your quest. I talked to him about how motivation comes from within, but people often end up looking for it outside. Any ounce of excitement about your goal is the start of motivation.  Being positive also a factor of success. Looking at differing perspectives and how you can make someone else’s life better is motivation! Some ideas on how we can actually motivate ourselves.

Be Positive. Handling all the ups and downs in your life will possible only through positivity. So, being positive from within is very important. In your work life you will always face ups and downs and people who are stupid and annoying. That will never go away. No matter whether you own your own business or work in someone else’s. You have to think about the positive side of things. Negative patterns and thinking how annoying those people are will only bring your mood down and make the day worse for you. Think of the positives of your job. You are currently working for a large company that offers you great benefits , tuition reimbursement, and the opportunity to move around if you want to and prove you are ready to. (this is my son’s position right now)

If you are just starting out in business, and struggling to get it going, think about all the things you have the opportunity to do! You are master of your castle, the creator of the road, the engineer on the production train. No one will want to work with someone negative! Exude positivity and passion and people will follow. You will motivate yourself when you start generating activity!

Never stop Learning! That’s the best way to motivate yourself. When you are open to learning new opportunities will certainly knock on your door.  I am constantly listening to books, reading books, listening to podcasts, talking with people smarter than me, and watching educational videos. I love learning. I generate so many ideas listening to others. I am currently re-reading a book to go back and implement the items that stuck out to me in the book. I choose the subject matter based on what I feel I need. If I am down in the dumps, I listen to a motivational podcast. If I want to learn a new skill, I download audiobooks to listen to in the car to get me started.  You can learn anything you want now! Never stop learning!

Set Goals A well-set goal or an aim will always drive yourself towards success. When you know you have to achieve something in your life you always try to motivate yourself in achieving it, setting a goal is the best way to get motivated. Always make sure that your Goals are manageable. Start with the big picture and work backwards to set small, attainable, daily goals. Work toward your vision. I sometimes get lost on my journey, I revisit my goals and they help re-energize me.

Keep Yourself Healthy! Keeping your mind and body healthy is the best thing you can do to motivate yourself. Ingesting the proper nutrition and exercising are key to optimal performance. I have been using shakes for a year now, I LOVE THEM! They make me feel vital and energized and able to take on the world! I love the fact that even if I don’t go to the gym, I still look and feel my best because I am getting everything I need! It is key to success.

Stay the course! I believe in you! I think that if you have the proper vision for your life, goals written down to revisit on a daily basis, positive thoughts every day when you get up, proper nutrition, you will be able to accomplish what you set your mind to. Put in the work, read the book, eat the right foods, build the business, make the millions you desire or get the job you desire, or just live a happy healthy life you are looking for!

Cheers to motivational rants on blog posts and 20 year old sons who prompt them!